WHAT WE SEE WE DO

Pornography is a common habit among many. Just check a 17 year old's phone and you would see what I mean. In a typical porn movie, the ladies a raped, abused and used. They are valueless. Note that usually cameras don't focus on the men. They focus on the women. Their tears. Their cry for help. Their plea for mercy. That is what the average guy sees. He believes sex should be just like that.

 

But that is the movies. Some editing is done, you know. And those ladies are on drugs. Heavy drugs. Under that influence they can do practically anything.

 

In real life, it does not work like that. Sex to a woman is emotional. She prefers to make love. She can't go through that hammering. And if that happens, she feels like the movies. She feels used.

 

When men keep watching that stuff, they do it. They do it with their girl friends. They do it their wives. What we see we do. We move because we see. Pictures are powerful. Moving pictures are more powerful.

 

Can we handle the issue of rape? Of  course. Let us go back to the roots. Let us isolate it. If we can help young men see the damaging effects of pornography we can save our ladies. Men become beast because of pornography. But we can try. Let us help them break the habit. It is a difficult process. But it is possible.

 

As I life coach, I support what Treasure Kalu is advocating. Women deserve love and dignity. They deserve respect from us men. The truth is that if we can tackle the issue of pornography, just may be, we could solve the issue of rape. It is not a certainty. But a good start.